For all the wrong reasons…
1st it was Denise & Charlie, then came Heather & Richie. Now the 3rd couple to follow suit, Carmen & Dave…are calling it quits in the marital world. What’s happening? Don’t the vows they make at the altar mean anything to them..mean anything to anyone at all these days? Is it just some mumbo-jumbo they mumble one to another just so they can screw each other officially, legally, morally…?
Why is it that some people propose marriage to their partner but they are still blatantly ’sowing their wild oats in various fields’? And to say "I do" to one another only to continue their infidelity throughout the marriage? Why not be a bachelor (or a bachelorette) and screw as many people as your lustful heart desires?
This way, you are not bounded by any sort of commitment and no ones gets hurt in your whoring process. Why bother getting married in the 1st place, starting a family and then ruin it with a long string of affairs? Why do people do such things? Someone…anyone…please just enlighten my mind.
So many questions…
…I just need an answer.
July 19th, 2006 at 3:28 pm
Well for one you have a judgment about how it should be based on your beliefs of the world and your relationship to it. People do what they need to do thru thier choices so they can learn from it and move to greater heights of learning to love another without conditions. Be the change you wish to see the world was once spoken by a great soul.
Learning to live with yourself is what we are here for finding a stable point of reference within yourself would give you clarity from fantasy of that perfect love story and Truth, this is truly a beautiful world and nothing is broken until you heal yourself you would always wonder why things happen the way they do.
July 20th, 2006 at 9:13 pm
Babes, people do that cos they are cynical and words like, ” I promise to cherish you in good times and bad” are jus words and dun mean anything to them. Somehow the concept of marriage has jus lost its true meaning. Wedding vows have jus become pretty words and mean nothing else.
Its easier to throw the towel then sit down and find out what is wrong. N yeah, they get into marriages and still look to find the “one” in other people when they start to see their partners’ fault. U are right, it sad. Cos a marriage mean living with the person, faults and all and trying to forge a life together. Not living together cos a wedding would look great and then going, oh, this aint working out. I may not knoe the people u talked abt. Maybe i am wrong. But its sad when a marriage jus loses its true beautiful meaning and jus becomes a contract in which both parties can get out so easily. Such is the sad new world now.
July 20th, 2006 at 11:20 pm
Wayne, you are right in a way…it must’ve been truly a beautiful world to begin with because our Maker created it but it has since been tarnished with mankind’s deceit and obsessions with worldy possessions.
I do not think i’m being cynical because I still have hope…hope that one day people will learn to see the damages they’re doing unto themselves and their loved ones and once they stop denying that and start to be proactive about changing, that is when truly…it will be a beautiful world once again.
July 24th, 2006 at 4:57 pm
your right mawwee…too many excuses to fool around with one another, the world today is short cut-short term reality,if one were to look at the bigger picture and try to make things right for the future as well as the present perhaps there wouldnt as much ladidadi weddings anymore. most of the people who end marriages early into it werent even prepared for the whole shibang in the first place,
Marriage is for life, forget about the romance, its about sacrafice as well and thats the modern world is slowly forgetting. there are no short cuts, no easy way out no quick fix.
July 28th, 2006 at 10:30 pm
yeah Sash…you are right..in our time, everyone seems to easier way out i.e. the option of splitting up instead of trying to mend things and see if the relationship is workable.
There’s not much difference between our grandparents’ generation and our generation…same factors still exist- love, relationships, families but how is it that they are able to have the will to sustain through the hardships and overcome the obstacles and our generation doesn’t? truly, truly sad!..
July 28th, 2006 at 10:47 pm
Mitchie baby!! you and i always think on the same wavelengths…
nowadays, people are in love with…being in love. they’re just enamored with the ideals of love and nothing more…well, some of ‘em are!
and when the relationship gets stuck in rut, they flee…only to realise that they should’ve stuck around just a lil’ longer to work things out and reap the fruits of their labour.
and then, the regret creeps in but what’s the point? life’s too short to live with regrets…being in a relationship/marriage is about the enitre package- good or bad…it’s about living the entire experience through.
sighs…love you babe!